Taking the DAMN Chance with Bevin Farrand
In this episode of The Ready Enough Podcast, host Lauren Beane sits down with Bevin Farrand, founder of the Take the DAMN Chance movement, to discuss how to turn setbacks into purpose, craft a DAMN Manifesto, and take bold micro actions toward building the life you want.
About our guest
In 2019, after an unexpected loss just 5 days after she returned from a
whirlwind trip to France with her husband, Bevin Farrand founded the Take
the DAMN Chance movement. Her DAMN framework and Do the DAMN
Thing Method have inspired thousands to connect with the people that they
love, do the “crazy thing” that makes all the difference and, when given a
choice, to take the damn chance. Additionally, she is a coach that supports
women in achieving their goals, even after going through deeply challenging
experiences.
CONNECT WITH BEVIN
Have you ever faced a moment in life that knocked you off your feet and wondered, How do I move forward? In the latest episode of The Ready Enough Podcast, I sat down with Bevin Farrand, founder of the Take the DAMN Chance movement, who knows this feeling all too well. Through unimaginable loss, Bevin not only found her way forward but created a framework to help others say yes to their dreams—even in the face of fear and uncertainty.
Bevin’s story begins with heartbreak. After unexpectedly losing her husband just days after returning from a dream trip to France, she faced the overwhelming challenge of rebuilding her life as a single mom to two young children. Instead of letting grief paralyze her, Bevin turned her pain into purpose, launching a movement that has inspired countless people to take bold action and live life without regrets.
Here are the key takeaways from our inspiring conversation:
1. Craft Your DAMN Manifesto
Bevin’s DAMN framework stands for Decide and Declare, Attend Your Own Party, Moments Not Minutes, and Now is the Time. It starts with defining your yes—the thing you want most—and building a six-dimensional “why” around it: financial, emotional, mental, physical, social, and spiritual. This clear sense of purpose becomes your guiding light when challenges arise.
Ask yourself: What is the thing I want most right now, and why does it matter?
2. Take Micro Actions
Big dreams can feel overwhelming, but Bevin emphasizes the power of small steps. “You don’t climb a mountain by staring at the summit—you go tree to tree,” she says. By breaking your goals into tiny, manageable actions, you can build momentum and avoid the paralysis that comes with overwhelm.
Pro tip: Set aside just 15 minutes a day to work on your dream. It’s amazing how far micro actions can take you!
3. Find Your DAMN People
We can’t do it all alone—and we’re not supposed to! Bevin shares how surrounding yourself with the right people can provide the accountability, support, and encouragement needed to keep moving forward, even when life feels hard.
Who are your DAMN people? Think of those who will cheer you on and hold you accountable for showing up for your dreams.
4. Shift From Anxiety to Action
When faced with fear, Bevin reminds us that anxiety often masquerades as fear. While fear has an actionable solution, anxiety thrives on what ifs. Her PAD method (Pause, Acknowledge, Do) helps you ground yourself in the present moment, name your feelings, and take the next small action.
Key takeaway: Action isn’t just a response to inspiration; it creates it.
5. No One Else Lives With Your Regrets
Bevin’s reminder hit me right in the feels: “No one else will ever have to live with your regrets.” When you’re 85, looking back at your life, will you be glad you took the chance? Or will you wish you had? This perspective can be the nudge you need to take action on the things that truly matter to you.
Bevin’s story is a powerful testament to the resilience of the human spirit. Her journey shows us that even in the face of heartbreak, we can find purpose, take bold chances, and live a life without regrets. Whether it’s crafting your DAMN manifesto, finding your people, or simply taking one micro action today, the steps are there for you to start living life on your terms.
If you’re ready to take your own DAMN chance, head to YourDamnManifesto.com to grab a free copy of Bevin’s book and start crafting your big dreams today.
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